One insight. One thought from a great mind. One shift you can make. All built around one question: What is the difference between good and great?Â
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The Cave You Fear To Enter
There is a pattern I see in high achievers who stay stuck. Talking about the same goal over and over, but not doing anything about it. The goal that never seems to get closer. The goal that can change everything if it works, but cost something significant if it doesn't. And the reason is almost always the same...
The cave represents the thing you want most. And wanting something that much means the possibility of losing it matters that much as well. So fear creeps in, and you stay outside, circling the cave where it's safer. Where failure isn't possible. But here is the problem: circling the cave is its own kind of failure.Â
Whatever it is that you want most in life, if you want the treasure, you have to stop letting fear dominate your decisions and enter the cave. Because the entrance fee isn't...
One insight. One thought from a great mind. One shift you can make. All built around one question: What is the difference between good and great?
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When Fear Is Disguised As Preparation.
This is a pattern I see a lot with high-achievers. Making plans and being overly prepared often times feels responsible and like the smart thing to do. But what I have also noticed is that preparation sometimes isn't strategic. It's actually the armor we wear, to protect ourselves from facing the fear we have of failing at the very thing we are preparing for!
Vision based preparation is about getting ready for future success. Fear based preparation is about avoiding the very thing you know you must do to move forward but keep prolonging. The question then isn't whether you are ready. The question is when are you going to stop using preparation as the excuse to why you are not facing your fear and taking action toward the vision y...
One insight. One thought from a great mind. One shift you can make. All built around one question: What is the difference between good and great?
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ONE INSIGHT
When Fear Is Disguised As Preparation.
This is a pattern I see a lot with high-achievers. Making plans and being overly prepared often times feels responsible and like the smart thing to do. But what I have also noticed is that preparation sometimes isn't strategic. It's actually the armor we wear, to protect ourselves from facing the fear we have of failing at the very thing we are preparing for!
Vision based preparation is about getting ready for future success. Fear based preparation is about avoiding the very thing you know you must do to move forward but keep prolonging. The question then isn't whether you are ready. The question is when are you going to stop using preparation as the excuse to why you are not facing your fear and taking action toward the vision you have for your l...
One insight. One thought from a great mind. One shift you can make. All built around one question: What is the difference between good and great?
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When Your Belief Becomes Your Ceiling.
Here's what I have learned from working in the world of high performance: The only thing keeping you from getting what you want is the story you tell yourself about why you don't have it yet.
You see, a story is simply a set of beliefs we have created about why things are the way they are in our life...
And if we are not careful, our beliefs condition a story that becomes the ceiling on our potential. Because all beliefs carry with them consequences, and different stories create completely different trajectories in our life.
From that, this is what I have found that separates the good from the great: Their ability to create empowerin...
One insight. One thought from a great mind. One shift you can make. All built around one question: What is the difference between good and great?Â
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Winning is obviously the point, but it's not the purpose.Â
This is the culture shift that has the power to change everything. In high performance environments where the stakes are high and the scoreboard is worshipped, then it easy to feel like "Winning is the point". But what if it wasn't?Â
When winning is the only reason to compete (even if you do it a lot), it can still feel like something is missing. But the truth I see in high performing teams is that the ones who play for something bigger than the result are the ones that find something bigger than the result. Winning matters, but purpose is what makes winning mean something. And it's what keeps a team fighting when winning feels far away.Â
This is something counterintuitive, but courageous you might want to try: Stop talking about winning, and start talking about y...
One insight. One thought from a great mind. One shift you can make. All built around one question: What is the difference between good and great?Â
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The Unexpected Gift of the Closed Door.Â
Failing, not reaching the goal, getting cut, being told no, or having something taken from you is what many people look at as a closed door. And closed doors can seem devastating is we attach the wrong meaning to it. That is because the closed door only seems bad if you're convinced it is a bad thing. But what if it was simply just a redirect?
What if the thing you are not getting is actually protecting you from a path that isn't really meant for you?
The people who handle rejection best are not the ones who minimize it. They are the ones who ask, what can I learn from this and what is this redirecting me toward?
If I am honest, you might be attaching yourself to a specific outcome, a specific path, a specific version of how things should be. When that gets taken away, you interpr...
Most people believe that goals are destinations. I used to believe that too. But the more time I spend around high performers, the more I see a simple paradox: What most people think about achievement is often backwards...
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We're taught that a goal is something "out there" in the future that we chase until we reach it. But a powerful shift happens when you see goals in the following way:Â
A goal is a place to come from, not a place to get to.
When you treat goals this way, they stop being distant finish lines and start being your daily starting point. That changes everything about how you show up.
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Here's what it looks like in real life:
Today I want to share an evidence based behavior strategy used to manage children’s behavior patterns called "When-Then". This behavior strategy is used to help a child better understand what behaviors are expected of them...
For instance a parent might say:
Or a teacher might say:
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Simple and effective right?Â
But here is the thing…Whilst it works on children, as adults we have conditioned our hearts and minds to use this same behavior management strategy to literally prevent us from living the life we really want to live. What I mean by this is we use that same formula to create excuses and reasons as to why we don’t have the things we say we want in our life.
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For instance I hear people say…
Has your computer ever got a virus where the hard drive with all your files gets corrupted? Frustrating right…
Well, have you ever thought about how your mind gets corrupted with infected files as well?
Either way, this is something we should talk about if you want to break through the glass ceiling holding you back from what you truly desire.
Because just like computers must get software upgrades to stay current and compatible with its network, our minds need updating as well to stay compatible with the next level of success we are working towards.
 So what corrupt files am I talking about?
I am talking about all of the fears and the false beliefs about what it takes to achieve success that are keeping you from operating at your best. And if you don’t uninstall these things then they will weaken and destroy everything you are trying to do…
Because here is what most people don’t understand: Only 50% of learning is learning. The other 50% of learning is unlearning. This concept is...
Is there something you want to do, or an opportunity you want to take advantage of? Of course, I already knew the answer…
How long have you been wanting to do that thing or take advantage of that opportunity?
1 week, 1 month, 1 year, your whole life…
How much longer are you prepared to wait for it?
I don’t know everything, but I do know this…If you keep waiting until you are ready, you’ll be waiting for the rest of your life. There is never the perfect time, the perfect moment and the planets will never be perfectly aligned…
At some point you have to stop making excuses about why you CAN’T do it and start formulating a plan of how you CAN do it!
To help you do that let’s look at three words I know you are familiar with:
Now look at the same three words in a different sequence that has the potential to produce radically different results:
This sequence may sound backward, but it is the sequence where your NEXT LEVEL life is found. It is the ...
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